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The 5 Laws of Learning (and Business Growth)

Episode 40: The 5 Laws of Learning (and Business Growth)

Release date: 05/28/2026
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This week on The Bounce Rate, we head back to the classroom to talk about what learning can teach us about customer experience. From gold stars and dodgeball dominance to AI, Chick-fil-A, and the emotional trauma of a $17 to-go container, the crew breaks down the five laws of learning and how they apply to business. Readiness, exercise, primacy, intensity, and disuse all shape how customers understand your brand. Whether you are training staff, building habits, creating first impressions, or reminding people why they liked you in the first place, customer service is really a form of teaching. The question is: what exactly are your customers learning from you?

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Mrs angleton from fourth grade class she

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taught us so much about businesses well number

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one she taught us that talking too loud drew

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attention and detention two failing

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on a quiz wasn’t really a great way to prepare for

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the exam although it was motivational number

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three when she didn’t know something

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it did not help when she tried to cover

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it up she knew she was wrong and so did

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we and number four you have to burn off

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some energy at recess to be productive it’s universal in

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today’s episode we are taking you back to the

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classroom to think about how they’re fundamentally there are fundamentally three

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different ways to learn because of because of the subject because of the student

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and because of the environment we’re going to break them down in terms of a

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customer experience and i don’t want to go back to school,

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My partner super recently took a class. I take that back.

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I don’t want to go back to being a full-time student.

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I do know that recently I took a one-off class, and that was fun because I was

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spending my own money, and I was more motivated than when I was just in high school.

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That having been said, the process of going to seven classes in a row and going

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home and having to do homework is a nightmare.

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I disagree. If I could go to a nice, a good college and just dedicate myself

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to like learning, I think that would be awesome. Because when I was younger,

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I was working, partying, like I just didn’t, I was just getting by.

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But now I’m at an age where I really realized I like to learn.

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And so I think it would be cool. I mean, obviously I don’t want to do the basics.

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I want to do higher level learning, but I think that would be,

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I walk on like Rice campus and I’m like, oh, this is amazing.

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You know? So, James, if we do a Never Been Kissed episode where you go back,

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obviously you’re not going to date. You’re just going back to pretend to be a freshman.

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I’m going back Billy Madison style. There we go.

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I’m going to play dodgeball with the junior high kids and crush them. Destroy them. Yes.

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That would be nice. Yeah, maybe even fourth graders. I have no morals when it

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comes to dodgeball. If I, look, if I had to go back to school and I jumped into

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fourth grade, I would absolutely wreck everyone.

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I would be so, so much more advanced than everyone, you know?

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Yeah, I know. I know. Like, I’d be like at a sixth or seventh grade level.

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I’d be reading at a seventh grade level. It would be so impressive.

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I see you guys going back and just like terrorizing your classmates and just like, oh, man.

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I would just, look, what I would be shooting for is that gold star.

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I just, I want that gold star sticker and I’d want to be named student of the day.

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But learning is fun. That was also, that was something that I had to,

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like the structure of learning and the structure of being quizzed and having

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exams was extremely anxiety inducing.

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But learning is great.

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And doing it, like today we’re going to talk about the five principles of learning, right?

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What do we call it? Five laws of learning. Five laws of learning.

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So it’s an actual law. and i think each of them are pretty applicable to how

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digestible the learning process is for people,

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what type of we’ve talked about this before what what type of learners are y’all

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what what how do you learn things so i definitely don’t learn the way the normal

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school teaches right like i’m not a hear it learn it like i have to like ingest

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it i’ve got to see it i got to write it you know So multiple.

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Yeah, I cannot. That’s how everybody is, honestly. That’s not how my son is.

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He hears the stuff and then he goes and gets an A. I’m like, how?

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But that, so there’s not a difference.

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The old theory behind there’s auditory losers, visual learners, and kinesthetic.

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That’s all been, research has blown that out of the water.

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They’re really, that is not really a thing. The difference is motivation.

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Motivation. Your son wants to learn that stuff and demonstrate.

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It. That’s why he’s hearing it.

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And that’s why he can hear it. Remember it because it’s important to him on

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some level, on some level. I think, I think there’s truth to that.

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But I think, so, you know, recently there’s been this huge surge of people self-diagnosing

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themselves with attention deficit disorder.

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And I feel like it is slightly different.

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There can be something that I am super interested in and is super important to me.

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And the moment someone gets the third sentence in, my mind will start to say,

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okay, what’s going on right now?

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Oh my gosh. just like the listeners of this podcast.

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Yeah, they zone out. And so, well, the listeners of every podcast,

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I mean, sometimes you just have a podcast on in the background.

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Well, I have a friend that listens to the bounce rate.

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Specifically, she says she listens to it to go to sleep. So nice of them.

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But the point- Hey, I’m just glad we’re helping her achieve something in her

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life. We’ll find our niche. Yeah.

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But I would- It’s white noise. I would submit that for me, it doesn’t sink in.

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Like, yeah, sure. I have to hear someone explain it, but it does not sink in

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until I physically doing it.

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If someone’s like, all right, so first you’re going to do this,

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then you’re going to do this.

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By the third step, I’m struggling to get in there. It’s way easier for me to

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actually just like, number one, do it.

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Number two, do it. So I think that that’s more around the subject matter than the learning style.

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So take the difference between studying to be a CPA versus to be a race car driver.

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This is the academic talk. Well, they’re different subjects and they relate differently.

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So with being a race car driver, yeah, there’s a lot of academic.

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I mean, it’s not just drive faster in the left, as South Park so eloquently put it.

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There is tons of egghead knowledge, science, and so forth in being a race car driver.

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But ultimately, it is about doing. You have to physically do it.

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But no amount of preparation can prepare you to drive a race car at 170 miles

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an hour around those curves except doing it.

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Being a CPA, I can tell you.

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Yeah. I’m going to say confirm and slightly critique because when I was going

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to business school and I was taking accounting classes, I would be like,

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okay, this is accounting and I need to learn this.

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I did not feel motivated to do accounting until I had my own business.

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And then I was like, oh, this is this is not a struggle.

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I need to do this accounting because it’s real. I always had a problem with

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hypothetical problems because I’m like, well, this is all this is all pretend anyway.

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When I was actually doing the thing. And that’s hard because it’s like,

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well, if that’s the case, then you just need to be an intern for everything. Right.

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You’re correct in that there must be a balance.

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There has to be a point to where you practice it before you actually do it for real.

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So I’m not sure we’re saying the same thing.

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It’s seeing what I’m, what I hear you, you’re talking about like your motivation to learn.

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And so you don’t really start processing on something unless you can see how

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you can apply it to something.

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So accounting, because accounting is accounting, T account.

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I mean, you may not get gotten that far into your business because you may not need it.

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But, you know, debits and credits and balances and how this moves around and

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owner equity and all that stuff.

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I mean, those are concepts that you have to have in your head and that are abstract.

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There is no physical representation of owner equity.

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No. Well, I guess I’m just talking about like the like homework,

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just like saying, all right.

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So for you to go learn it and do it and apply it and process it internally, Right.

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You you had to have some some concrete application to get you excited to go do it. Basically, yeah.

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Yeah. That’s very different, though, than talking about teaching a kid to drive

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a car or somebody to fly a plane.

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Because at the end of the day, there are going to be some kids that can just

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hold that abstract that are interested. They’re puzzle solvers.

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Well, then they want to hold that abstraction in their head.

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And that’s fine. In accounting, I can do that.

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We can talk about it all abstractly and then they can go take a test and ace it.

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You cannot ace flying unless you do it physically.

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Let me ask this because I do not have a child. Do kids zone out anymore?

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Is it worse now than it used to be, you think? I mean, yeah.

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They zone out, of course. Some more than others.

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You know what I mean? I’ve got a space cadet as one kid and then another one

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is not so much. but yeah I think I mean the phones changed everything but I

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think it’s I don’t know if it’s you think it’s probably similar yeah.

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Yeah, my wife still teaches. She teaches teenagers, high school.

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I don’t know that I’d say that from what she’s told me, I don’t think that people

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are… Zoning out is probably a little different now.

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It’s probably staring at your phone mindlessly scrolling.

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Sure. As opposed to, we didn’t have a phone.

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When I was in school and I zoned out, I was just staring at the wall and then

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I was falling asleep. How much I miss those times.

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I wish I could go back to college. It would be cool. I will say this.

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I would like to spend a couple of days in the 80s as an adult just to remember,

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just to see what it would be like to not have to constantly check.

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Leather zipper jackets. That’s what it was like. Yeah, there was always,

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you were always. Leotards. There was always.

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Jazzercise. I think you were just talking about Michael Jackson.

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I will say this, though. I did learn something about education because I did

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not apply myself very well to education.

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And in the end, if you fast forward, I mean, I feel like I’ve I’ve you know, I ran a business.

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I provided for a family and now I’m at this amazing company.

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Yeah, you speak good. And I feel like I’m doing great.

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But I feel like I look back and I’m like, oh my gosh, if you just focus on school,

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it makes it so much easier.

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The path just becomes easier, right?

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And I think you could apply that to business too, where best practices,

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learning things, just do the work.

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Yeah. And everything becomes so much easier. Of course, you can be successful

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without it, but you just make it a harder path. Does that make sense?

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The, the, the applicability of what is taught in school is very hard for a lot of kids to see.

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I think that’s when, when, when I hear people say, oh yeah, the way we’re taught

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in school doesn’t work for me.

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I almost always think that it’s, it’s a challenge of as the student going up

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through, they didn’t see how this would apply to them. I, I, yeah.

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I, I think it’s such an interesting thing. I was, I don’t know where I kind

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of got, it wasn’t necessarily from my family, but I, for whatever reason,

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I was very much one of those kids that wanted to learn all sorts of different stuff.

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And I wanted to study, you know, philosophy and history and math and all those things.

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Even if I didn’t want to demonstrate it and do well on tests.

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I mean, I, I almost failed out of English. I can’t tell you how many times,

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cause I was a terrible writer.

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I didn’t want to check my work. But I loved discussing this stuff.

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When I’m looking at AI, and just recently, I personally have had a lot of exposure

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to AI concepts and things that they’re trying to do and kind of cutting edge with marketing stuff.

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I think that desire to learn everything and think that anything that’s out there

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that can be learned is worth learning is probably the single most important

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skill you can have going forward.

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Because if you don’t have that kind of breadth, AI is not going to work as well

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for you as it does for other people.

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That’s what you’re saying. Because you’ll go in, you’ll say,

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solve this problem, chat GPT.

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It’ll solve it and then you have no way to evaluate it yeah

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yeah chat gb and that’s the thing with ai we’re

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now we’ve reached a point where there’s this guest master’s

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degree level assistant that everyone has

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and so there’s going to be this line

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of does this do you stop learning

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here and let this reference thing do

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all your do all your thinking or do you

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learn how the reference machine works and it

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becomes your personal assistant i yeah

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what we’re gonna see is that it you

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won’t have the talking about how applicable is

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to your life there aren’t going to be jobs where all

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i do is go get the ai answer and move

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on because if that’s your job is just going

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and being the person so did you guys see galaxy quest yeah

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the sigourney weaver you haven’t seen it oh with tim allen

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and sigourney weaver and monk with alan rickman and tony alan rickman it’s awesome

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movie it’s a it’s a it’s a parody of star trek okay anyway at one point sigourney

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weaver is talking to the computer they’re having this this meeting it’s a crisis

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the aliens can i can i explain so basically they played a washed up.

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Cast of an old star trek type movie okay

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and it turns out that there are aliens

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that have been watching that movie and

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crafted their entire society around it so they abduct the cast because they

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need them to help them with a certain intergalactic problem so it’s this cast

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of washed up actors trying to operate a star trek level spaceship awesome it

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does sound like a great It’s exactly off of the show.

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This is great. So everything works exactly like, so the cast actually has to

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go back and like rewatch episodes to know how to do that. How do we do that? Yeah.

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So at one point in the show, they’re having this meeting, they’re asking the

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computer, like how much fuel do we have and so forth.

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So the captain to Malin will say, okay, how much fuel will we have?

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And Sigourney will say, computer, how much fuel do we have? And then the computer responds.

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And then they say, says, okay, what is our shield strength? And she’ll say,

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computer, what is our show?

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And somebody says, well, you’re just repeating.

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So she says, I have one job and I’m going to damn well do it.

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And that is repeating the question to the computer.

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That AI job is not going to exist. Yeah.

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We are not going to have this. So if you can’t take what comes out of AI and

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analyze it, place it into the context, evaluate it, judge it,

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you’re not going to have a job. I think that’s that’s.

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So that’s where studying Plato is important because you don’t know when that

00:15:27.634 –> 00:15:31.394
one piece of information is going to actually come true.

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Studying history is going to be important because I need to know how these things

00:15:35.274 –> 00:15:39.434
work in context. How do people, in understanding that stuff. Critical thinking.

00:15:39.814 –> 00:15:44.334
Being able to say, all right, how does this generative answer,

00:15:45.054 –> 00:15:46.934
what part- I have to evaluate it.

00:15:47.054 –> 00:15:52.474
Yeah, what part of this generation is not a good answer. Even if all I’m trying

00:15:52.474 –> 00:15:58.274
to do from it is just execute, because a lot, you know, right now,

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at least ChatGPT cannot run my burger restaurant.

00:16:02.414 –> 00:16:06.874
Yeah. I mean, I still have to actually serve the burger, but asking a question,

00:16:07.134 –> 00:16:10.694
seeing how I should run the back of house, how I should market,

00:16:10.854 –> 00:16:12.654
how I should, I’ve got to be able to evaluate those.

00:16:12.754 –> 00:16:17.114
ChatGPT, the customer says they want triple patty with cheese.

00:16:17.434 –> 00:16:21.434
Do I do that? That’s a great question, James. ChatGVT, your customer’s upset.

00:16:21.594 –> 00:16:23.294
They want… You’re right.

00:16:23.734 –> 00:16:25.914
Extra patties does make it more delectable.

00:16:26.814 –> 00:16:30.914
So we’re going to talk about the five laws of learning.

00:16:31.214 –> 00:16:34.714
Yes. So I was a teacher. That’s how I met my wife.

00:16:34.914 –> 00:16:39.314
I’ve also taught… I was a flight instructor. I’ve been a ski instructor.

00:16:40.174 –> 00:16:46.234
I did a very tiny little bit of improv coaching under some direct supervision.

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We’ll do more. We’ll do more.

00:16:47.914 –> 00:16:53.174
Anyway, so I’ve got some good experience in teaching, but I’m going to give you the five laws.

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This is why, and I want you to relate these. So these are the five laws of how

00:16:58.734 –> 00:17:01.754
somebody learns and whether you’re going to be successful at teaching them something.

00:17:02.014 –> 00:17:05.594
Yeah. And I want you guys to apply it to customer service. Are you ready? Okay. Okay.

00:17:05.874 –> 00:17:10.734
All right. The first one is law of readiness. It says a learner cannot learn

00:17:10.734 –> 00:17:12.214
until they are ready to learn.

00:17:12.774 –> 00:17:14.754
Yeah, I think that is.

00:17:15.758 –> 00:17:22.478
Highly applicable to customer service in that we have a funnel.

00:17:22.638 –> 00:17:25.158
You have a funnel when it comes to customers.

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And some customers might be ready for another smoothie in two days.

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Other customers might be ready for a smoothie in a month.

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And so you have to, some people might, the law of readiness,

00:17:43.738 –> 00:17:48.098
some people are not ready to receive the message of, hey, come buy my,

00:17:48.298 –> 00:17:51.198
come, come buy the smoothie and you have to track that.

00:17:51.378 –> 00:17:54.318
So the way I, I kind of interpret it is right.

00:17:54.838 –> 00:17:56.998
Yeah. You said.

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First of all I’ve learned you can’t learn till you’re ready to learn till you’re ready

00:18:00.698 –> 00:18:04.578
to learn so I’m like I can’t provide

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a great experience and support my

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customers until I’m see the

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value that too you can’t learn from

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your own operational mistakes yes until you’re ready to do that that that’s

00:18:17.998 –> 00:18:23.238
something that I feel a lot where I will go you know what I’m not I’m gonna

00:18:23.238 –> 00:18:27.198
focus on this I’m not gonna worry about this I know you go aside yeah and that’s

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the thing like after your ego takes so many hits, you go, okay, I’m ready to.

00:18:32.058 –> 00:18:35.038
You either are just a learner or you get beat down.

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Yeah, you go, all right, you win, I’m ready. I’m ready to learn from my mistakes.

00:18:39.118 –> 00:18:40.378
Or you never learn and you just go out of business.

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All right, very good. The next law of learning is the law of exercise,

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which says that the concepts that you repeat the most frequently are the ones

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that are most embodied, the ones that you learn the best.

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So I kind of yeah I

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mean I could apply that in so many different ways but it’s like the law of repetition

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right or like I look at it two different ways one I look at it as a business

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owner I told myself in my head many things and what I told myself usually became

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the reality right so being,

00:19:18.438 –> 00:19:23.698
aware of what how you’re speaking to yourself that’s one way right so that you

00:19:23.698 –> 00:19:27.218
are growing and you’re building, not beating yourself down.

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And so I have another, I think that’s a great point. Yeah, I got another one,

00:19:31.758 –> 00:19:33.338
but go ahead. No, no, no, no, no, you’re up.

00:19:33.498 –> 00:19:38.558
Well, the way I think that’s applicable is that I’ve certainly been to,

00:19:38.798 –> 00:19:44.778
let’s use a restaurant where the pickup counter works exceptionally smoothly.

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And I come in and they always have my food ready and it’s always right.

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However, the rest of the restaurant is very dirty. And they are exercising the…

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Takeout counter procedure very well.

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And it’s making me go, oh, you know what? If I go here, I’m going to get fast,

00:20:05.901 –> 00:20:07.181
hot, fresh, correct food.

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But I do not want to take a date to this place because it’s dirty all the time.

00:20:11.641 –> 00:20:17.101
So sometimes you have to make, well, sometimes you may think that you need to

00:20:17.101 –> 00:20:21.961
make a trade-off, but it’s entirely possible that you could be exercising one

00:20:21.961 –> 00:20:25.321
procedure way too much and letting another muscle group atrophy.

00:20:25.981 –> 00:20:28.521
And I think that as Because business

00:20:28.521 –> 00:20:32.241
owners, you have to do a full body workout to say like, all right.

00:20:32.481 –> 00:20:35.601
Well, I was going to relate it to like advertising, right? The message you put

00:20:35.601 –> 00:20:38.941
out there, you’ve got to repeat that message over and over and over so that

00:20:38.941 –> 00:20:42.361
the customer digest it, right? They don’t hear it once and that’s it.

00:20:42.481 –> 00:20:45.881
You’ve got to push that narrative, repeat it, repeat it, repeat it.

00:20:45.981 –> 00:20:47.061
Yeah, you can’t just do one.

00:20:47.201 –> 00:20:51.261
It’s exercise because you’re doing reps. You’re like, you know, practicing.

00:20:51.621 –> 00:20:54.581
Yeah, and I think you have to be consistent. If you’re not consistent,

00:20:54.581 –> 00:21:00.141
people will pick an arbitrary piece of their experience with you because we

00:21:00.141 –> 00:21:01.001
want a pattern recognized.

00:21:01.781 –> 00:21:05.761
We want to sum this experience up into something.

00:21:05.881 –> 00:21:09.961
And so if I don’t have that repetition, who knows what I’m going to pick out of them.

00:21:10.101 –> 00:21:12.421
Yeah. All right. The law of primacy.

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So that which is learned first is learned best.

00:21:17.021 –> 00:21:21.841
Interesting. That is learned first is learned best. Interesting.

00:21:22.781 –> 00:21:27.381
Now, not to be confused with the band Primus. That’s what I first thought of.

00:21:27.521 –> 00:21:30.461
I’m like, how did they make it into the law of learning?

00:21:30.701 –> 00:21:31.901
Yeah. Laws of learning.

00:21:32.221 –> 00:21:36.401
That does make sense because, you know, whenever you are learning a,

00:21:37.157 –> 00:21:40.477
you’re stacking things on top of each other. You’re saying, all right,

00:21:40.517 –> 00:21:42.537
I’m going to learn the fundamentals first.

00:21:42.577 –> 00:21:46.677
And that is, you know, in basketball, you learn dribbling.

00:21:46.877 –> 00:21:51.517
And you say, because that’s the base, you need to dribble to get around the court.

00:21:51.837 –> 00:21:54.777
And then you build on top of that and on top of that.

00:21:54.897 –> 00:21:59.117
And if you start with the top thing, then you’re going to have,

00:21:59.297 –> 00:22:01.057
then you won’t have a good foundation.

00:22:01.237 –> 00:22:06.937
So I think that’s a good, it’s accurately, that’s an accurate assessment just

00:22:06.937 –> 00:22:12.117
in terms of foundational knowledge in running things and saying,

00:22:12.337 –> 00:22:14.037
all right, so what am I going to learn first?

00:22:14.237 –> 00:22:21.697
Well, I’m going to learn that you need to have, you know, revenue minus expenses equals profit.

00:22:22.017 –> 00:22:26.457
And if I don’t have profit, I need to increase revenue or decrease expenses.

00:22:26.757 –> 00:22:31.137
And so that’s, you know, I’ve learned that and then I It can build on top of that.

00:22:31.357 –> 00:22:36.997
If you get too far into the weeds on other stuff, it can be easy to forget those fundamentals.

00:22:37.217 –> 00:22:40.917
That’s how I can kind of interpret that. Yeah, I’m like, this one’s confusing

00:22:40.917 –> 00:22:42.717
me a little bit, but I’m kind of thinking…

00:22:43.711 –> 00:22:48.651
Whatever you perceive is valuable and where you spend your time is kind of what

00:22:48.651 –> 00:22:51.951
you learn doesn’t mean it’s always right. But I don’t know.

00:22:52.651 –> 00:22:54.911
I would be curious to see what you think about it. So I would say,

00:22:54.991 –> 00:22:58.631
especially with related customer service, this has to do with first impressions matter.

00:22:58.871 –> 00:23:01.931
Yeah, there you go. It’s your first impression. I knew I was going to set the

00:23:01.931 –> 00:23:04.011
tone. It is what is going to make the difference.

00:23:04.351 –> 00:23:08.331
Love that. I forgot we were related back to customer service. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:23:08.571 –> 00:23:12.191
But no, that’s perfect. And learning-wise, it is hard to unlearn stuff.

00:23:12.191 –> 00:23:17.431
Yeah. Once you learn how to do something, somebody comes along and says, oh, do it this way.

00:23:17.571 –> 00:23:19.911
You’re like, wait, that’s not what I learned the first time.

00:23:20.171 –> 00:23:22.731
Yeah, I mean, that makes a lot of sense because say you go to a new restaurant,

00:23:22.791 –> 00:23:24.011
the first experience is negative.

00:23:24.751 –> 00:23:27.411
That’s going to stick with you. But say you’ve gone a few times,

00:23:27.431 –> 00:23:30.831
you had great customer experience, then you get a negative one.

00:23:31.051 –> 00:23:33.591
You’re like, okay, that was maybe weird. I’ll go back.

00:23:34.351 –> 00:23:37.171
And again, the service is great. You’re going to forgive them.

00:23:37.291 –> 00:23:40.571
But if that first one is negative, that’s going to be your impression of that

00:23:40.571 –> 00:23:41.991
restaurant or that business.

00:23:42.451 –> 00:23:47.251
100% is going to stick with you. It’s hard to unlearn this negative experience. Yep.

00:23:47.991 –> 00:23:54.251
Okay. Law of intensity that a learning experience that has more emotion in it

00:23:54.251 –> 00:23:58.011
or is more exciting helps you better learn the lesson.

00:23:58.131 –> 00:24:03.791
Well, I feel like in customer service, this is like, does the business,

00:24:03.951 –> 00:24:05.151
do you feel that they care?

00:24:05.391 –> 00:24:08.971
Right? Like, you know, is it like, okay, sure.

00:24:09.171 –> 00:24:12.811
Okay. Sorry about that. We’ll do this. Or is it like, oh my gosh,

00:24:12.951 –> 00:24:18.031
you know, like, you know, they, they, they make you feel like they care.

00:24:18.251 –> 00:24:19.071
Does that make sense? Yeah.

00:24:19.451 –> 00:24:26.251
Well, also the inverse negative intensity where if you were at a restaurant

00:24:26.251 –> 00:24:31.931
and I was at a restaurant recently and it was, there was a.

00:24:33.107 –> 00:24:35.867
It was an all-you-can-eat situation, or I will say.

00:24:36.047 –> 00:24:40.747
It was one of those like hot pot or Mongolian grill. I don’t know what we call

00:24:40.747 –> 00:24:42.807
it. Yeah, Mongolian grill, yeah.

00:24:43.727 –> 00:24:51.287
And so I had made slightly more meat than I could eat.

00:24:51.767 –> 00:24:55.867
It was not a lot. It was just like a handful of meat. And I was like, oh, darn it.

00:24:55.947 –> 00:25:02.547
I don’t want this to go to waste, but I understand that these places can’t have to go.

00:25:03.587 –> 00:25:06.447
Containers. So I was like, all right, you know, I’m just going to come,

00:25:06.667 –> 00:25:10.007
I’m just going to kind of like come and say, like, totally understand if I can’t

00:25:10.007 –> 00:25:16.227
take this to go, but you know, am I able to do that or something?

00:25:16.907 –> 00:25:22.707
And the person like kind of snapped and they were like, well,

00:25:22.807 –> 00:25:24.407
we have to go containers for $17.

00:25:24.767 –> 00:25:30.727
I’m like, okay, okay, got it. And so it was a situation where I was kind of

00:25:30.727 –> 00:25:35.427
bringing an energy of saying, like, I don’t need a yes to this.

00:25:35.947 –> 00:25:39.887
And here’s where I am as a customer. And their response was,

00:25:39.887 –> 00:25:44.267
I’m not dealing with this. And, you know, and so…

00:25:45.251 –> 00:25:48.291
They made you feel what they were feeling on the wrong side.

00:25:48.491 –> 00:25:53.051
And I’ll bet, I’ll bet that that server’s experience, their first experience,

00:25:53.331 –> 00:25:57.711
their earliest experiences with that was somebody saying, I want a to-go box.

00:25:57.791 –> 00:26:00.851
And they’ll say, well, we have one for $17. And they said, what do you mean $17?

00:26:01.131 –> 00:26:04.551
I can’t believe. And that’s what they were expecting. That’s what they learned. Oh, yeah, exactly.

00:26:04.751 –> 00:26:08.831
So it becomes this vicious cycle where it’s like, I was kind of hoping,

00:26:09.291 –> 00:26:12.511
you know, the intensity of that situation. I was kind of hoping for them to

00:26:12.511 –> 00:26:15.811
say, oh, sorry, we can’t, we can’t do it. It’s just a policy.

00:26:15.991 –> 00:26:17.491
And I would have been like, totally understand.

00:26:18.291 –> 00:26:23.071
But their interpretation of this is, I need to prison rules.

00:26:23.211 –> 00:26:27.871
I need to right at the top say, no, absolutely not. It’s like, okay, okay, fine.

00:26:28.551 –> 00:26:31.171
I’m going to give you something here. Please. A little piece of advice.

00:26:31.451 –> 00:26:32.551
It’s going to blow your mind.

00:26:33.391 –> 00:26:38.511
Always bring somebody who carries a purse. A meat purse. A meat purse. That’s right.

00:26:38.671 –> 00:26:42.911
Then you have your own to-go bag at any given time. Stuff it in there. Smart. All right.

00:26:43.271 –> 00:26:47.231
All right. is that why fanny packs that was law of intensity okay all right

00:26:47.231 –> 00:26:53.831
last law number five law of disuse so if you are it’s kind of the opposite of

00:26:53.831 –> 00:27:00.291
exercise if if you haven’t been working on a concept for a long time the further

00:27:00.291 –> 00:27:02.871
away you get from it the less likely you’re going to remember it.

00:27:03.951 –> 00:27:07.271
Yeah i mean i feel like this one’s pretty obvious it’s just.

00:27:08.161 –> 00:27:11.321
Like if you don’t practice good customer service

00:27:11.321 –> 00:27:13.981
you’re gonna it’s not gonna happen i don’t know i

00:27:13.981 –> 00:27:17.081
mean like where am i missing here i think the scariest thing is

00:27:17.081 –> 00:27:20.061
how easy it is to let things

00:27:20.061 –> 00:27:23.121
atrophy and to go all right i’ve been really focused

00:27:23.121 –> 00:27:31.541
on this thing and my skills at updating my google profile have atrophied i’ve

00:27:31.541 –> 00:27:38.501
been spending so much time working on this customer satisfaction form that my

00:27:38.501 –> 00:27:41.341
skills at upselling have atrophied.

00:27:41.661 –> 00:27:47.301
So you’re correct. It’s the inverse of exercise.

00:27:47.581 –> 00:27:51.561
If you let something sit and you

00:27:51.561 –> 00:27:56.401
ignore it for a while, then whatever you learned is not going to matter.

00:27:56.781 –> 00:27:59.301
Well, I feel like Chick-fil-A has, I mean, they’re an example of customer service.

00:27:59.421 –> 00:28:04.401
They have great customer service. And I feel like leadership there makes it a priority, right?

00:28:04.541 –> 00:28:09.001
Like it is something that they’re constantly reminded and trained on.

00:28:09.121 –> 00:28:13.161
But I will say the longer I go from having a Chick-fil-A meal,

00:28:13.461 –> 00:28:17.101
the less visceral that it is.

00:28:17.901 –> 00:28:22.041
And I don’t, because sometimes you go into Chick-fil-A and love them or hate

00:28:22.041 –> 00:28:28.021
them if you love them, like when you get that super hot, fresh nugget or sandwich,

00:28:28.301 –> 00:28:29.721
it is really, really good.

00:28:29.821 –> 00:28:33.621
And you’re like, oh, yes. Yes, and it’s a very intense mode,

00:28:33.781 –> 00:28:34.421
right, law of intensity.

00:28:35.261 –> 00:28:39.101
Then as time goes by, I’m like, yeah, Chick-fil-A, I like that.

00:28:39.201 –> 00:28:42.201
You know, two weeks later, I’m like, yeah, it’s okay. Well, let’s go to Whataburger.

00:28:43.461 –> 00:28:46.541
And you forget it. So if I’m reminded…

00:28:48.015 –> 00:28:51.675
From a customer service, if I’m reminded, if the app has a notification,

00:28:51.675 –> 00:28:55.215
if I get an offer, if I get something just, hey, email, remind me.

00:28:55.915 –> 00:28:59.175
That’s what brings, oh God, I do, you know, that wasn’t that long ago,

00:28:59.255 –> 00:29:02.255
but boy, it was good. And then I go back and reinforce it.

00:29:02.495 –> 00:29:09.955
Hey, Eric, remember what it feels like to put our sandwich in your mouth and it’s warm and okay.

00:29:10.295 –> 00:29:13.895
Okay, we already did the love episode. We have moved on to learning.

00:29:14.135 –> 00:29:20.395
I do have to say, I respect a lot of things of what Chick-fil-A does,

00:29:20.555 –> 00:29:26.735
but I still think there is so much variance between locations.

00:29:27.515 –> 00:29:30.715
I’ve been to some Chick-fil-A. Controversial. Yeah, I’ve been to some Chick-fil-A

00:29:30.715 –> 00:29:36.395
that the chicken breast is just way too hard.

00:29:36.775 –> 00:29:39.395
It’s just too tough.

00:29:39.855 –> 00:29:43.455
I’ve been to some that the lemonade has way too much pulp in it.

00:29:43.455 –> 00:29:46.615
I don’t know how much the 72 grams

00:29:46.615 –> 00:29:49.455
is how much well you can tell though I mean yeah sure

00:29:49.455 –> 00:29:52.535
there’s going to be they’re going to there’s going to be some discrepancies

00:29:52.535 –> 00:29:55.615
but overall you can tell companies that really put

00:29:55.615 –> 00:29:58.555
a value customer service right like I feel

00:29:58.555 –> 00:30:01.775
like Starbucks is kind of in that line you know I mean but then compared

00:30:01.775 –> 00:30:04.495
to some of maybe the fact like I don’t want to name names but

00:30:04.495 –> 00:30:07.755
there’s some fast food burger places where it’s really falling

00:30:07.755 –> 00:30:11.115
off the cliff you know what i mean um they obviously aren’t

00:30:11.115 –> 00:30:14.075
putting a big emphasis on it right maybe that they’re yeah

00:30:14.075 –> 00:30:17.055
so i think what we’ve really covered

00:30:17.055 –> 00:30:19.855
is talking about how if if you want

00:30:19.855 –> 00:30:22.775
to take it if if to think about how you were as

00:30:22.775 –> 00:30:27.535
an as a student think about did you enjoy the material are you something that

00:30:27.535 –> 00:30:31.455
really got in there and and did it all the time is somebody that turned me off

00:30:31.455 –> 00:30:35.495
why is that because that same psychology really applies to the way you treat

00:30:35.495 –> 00:30:39.315
your customers and what they’re going to remember because customer service at

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the end of the day is teaching.

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It’s teaching somebody who you are and reminding them of that and trying to reinforce it.

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